Notes to Self - Self Reminder :)

TRAIN YOUR MIND TO SEE THE GOOD IN EVERYTHING

A FEW YEARS OF FOCUS, A LIFETIME OF FREEDOM

The person you will be in 5 years depends largely on,

• The books you read
• The people you spend time with
• The food you eat
• The habits you adopt
• The conversations you engage in today

4 SIMPLE RULES

• WAKE UP EARLY.
• WORK HARDER THAN YOU DID YESTERDAY.
• NEVER GO MORE THAN 3 DAYS WITHOUT EXERCISE.
• MAKE TIME TO READ DAILY.

EVERYTHING WILL FALL INTO PLACE. BE PATIENT.

                       

Karuthu Day :) :P

So, are you all ready to hear some karuthu?



If your answer is A BIG NO. Better stop reading further .... :P because it might bring blood from your eyes.. That much karuthu :P

If you are reading further, First of all a big hand shake and congratulations to you for the BIG STRENGTH you possess.. Hey friend, u note this, the strength you possess ,this strength is all enough for you to lead this one life,..

Question in my mind ,Yaanai palam (elephant strength) is enough for everyone to lead their life??????.

To lead a happy peaceful life,

    as a little human being ,I thought one day, if my dad got me that chocolate i will be happy,
 
    as a big grown up, i thought, love is all enough,

    as a grown up having that love, enough money needed for me to be happy,


so finally like many human living beings, I am running behind money to be peaceful and happy...  all of you may ask ,how much money,you think you may need to be happy and peaceful,

Seriously, secretly ,I had that question and still having that question...

Being In my about to reach 30s, married and no children,

I wonder day to day, how i can make and keep myself neutral( happiness and peacefulness) always and forever..

I heard that ,for so many wise people itself, it was tedious task to achieve inner peace and happiness.

I want to share my personal learning or experience  in keeping or making me happy and peaceful,

There are so many good things  that gives good vibes like

                  FAITHFULNESS
                  HOPEFULNESS
                  BELIEVE
                  ACCOMPLISHMENTS
                  SPIRITUALITY
                  DIVINITY

My personal experience is that,when I  had experience the above , I felt happy and peaceful.

When in doubt, Watch your thoughts and check its vibe, if it gives you good vibe , keep it, let it grow, if not, change your vibe to feel good, that's all , you will feel happy and peaceful :)

QUOTE of the day : Try again and again until you succeed.
                                    When you truly want something and go after it without limiting yourself with disbelief, the universe will make it happen.


I would like to know your learning that helping to keep you happy and peaceful at all times :) share in comments :)


SOMETHING IS TAKING CARE OF YOU.
TRUST THAT.
ONCE YOU BELIEVE,SIGNS ARE EVERYWHERE <3.

Super Satisfaction - "Me Time"

Hiiiiii all :)

 Here I am again ! This is My  "Me Time" haha...



So Okay, lets talk..

Everyone  of  you will be having your personal life goals as well as work life goals..ok in total ur goals will be there for your life.

I do have,did had many...

I didn't know there will be too many same goals that need to be put hard work and achieved daily to feel satisfied and haaaa feel (i mean that peacefullllll feelll)..

Ok ok let me open it to you, this is one of that many things that gives me the bestttttt satisfication daily...


I think many married,self kitchen maintaining people would relate well with me after seeing the pic and learning the story.

you got any clue?

See this pic

EMPTY AND CLEAN SINK..

what a feel na...I hope many could relate with me..Anyway,I want to say kudos to my mom for did that ,doing that still at her home, when I was there with her in home before marriage,she would never allow me to do this, I do when she is unwell still there will be some for her to do.. Love you mom..


Ok ok emotions off,


If i showed the pic before this(FULL UNCLEAN SINK) , those who could not relate to it can understand,

I am also thankful to my dear husband(My Mama) also for helping to maintain this much clean sink when I was unwell (sick with fever)...


The above is a simple work, still daily maintaining a clean kitchen and clean sink is seriously a great thing.

I bow down to all who do that just in all days.

PS: I do miss many days because of office work extension and so many other reasons.

But I do feel,at any cost, if I am able to achieve cleanliness,it really gives me many pleasure every time seeing that :) :) ,Again (What a feel ! na)


So that feel i was feeling na, then i remember y the old proverb says so,

Would like to know your goals and satisfactions or the feel you got on achieving that  ...Please let me know in my comments..:)

And Yeah-Maintaining a Clean and Neat Kitchen is my super daily goal .

Blessed Life = Our Life

Blog Named Butterfly ,WHY??

Why you named your blog butterfly?

It was some of my friends questions ..

I used to collect my earrings and rings mostly in butterfly too

Y AM I SO INTO Butterfly

Butterfly is beautiful 

colorful too and have cute little colorful wings too,

But not just because of the above reason.

Butterfly gives me positive vibes,strength and reminds me how much struggle is more important for our life. 

wondering ??

OK ,Let me explain, When I was studying my schooling's, to motivate myself i used to read lot of moral stories.

My dad used to tell lot of moral stories to me too.

Yeah,you must have got that story.

If you want to know the story, read it below. :)

Here is the story for you all that made me to see butterfly as my strength and positive vibe giving beauty.

Once a little boy was playing outdoors and found a fascinating caterpillar. He carefully picked it up and took it home to show his mother. He asked his mother if he could keep it, and she said he could if he would take good care of it.

The little boy got a large jar from his mother and put plants to eat, and a stick to climb on, in the jar. Every day he watched the caterpillar and brought it new plants to eat.

One day the caterpillar climbed up the stick and started acting strangely. The boy worriedly called his mother who came and understood that the caterpillar was creating a cocoon. The mother explained to the boy how the caterpillar was going to go through a metamorphosis and become a butterfly.

The little boy was thrilled to hear about the changes his caterpillar would go through. He watched every day, waiting for the butterfly to emerge. One day it happened, a small hole appeared in the cocoon and the butterfly started to struggle to come out.

At first the boy was excited, but soon he became concerned. The butterfly was struggling so hard to get out! It looked like it couldn’t break free! It looked desperate! It looked like it was making no progress!

The boy was so concerned he decided to help. He ran to get scissors, and then walked back (because he had learned not to run with scissors…). He snipped the cocoon to make the hole bigger and the butterfly quickly emerged!

As the butterfly came out the boy was surprised. It had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. He continued to watch the butterfly expecting that, at any moment, the wings would dry out, enlarge and expand to support the swollen body. He knew that in time the body would shrink and the butterfly’s wings would expand.

            But neither happened!

The butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings.

It never was able to fly…

As the boy tried to figure out what had gone wrong his mother took him to talk to a scientist from a local college. He learned that the butterfly was SUPPOSED to struggle. In fact, the butterfly’s struggle to push its way through the tiny opening of the cocoon pushes the fluid out of its body and into its wings. Without the struggle, the butterfly would never, ever fly. The boy’s good intentions hurt the butterfly.

As you go through life, keep in mind that struggling is an important part of any growth experience. In fact, it is the struggle that causes you to develop your ability to fly.